I do hope that my last post has helped you to understand what size maternity bra to buy and when to buy it but the next decision is what bra to buy.
If it is at all possible to get into a maternity store or specialist bra store (preferably not the major chain stores) to be fitted, then it is so much simpler that trying to order online and fit yourself but this blog is intended to help those that have no other option but to do it themselves.
Maternity bras have come a long way and you now have a lot more choice and the bras actually look sexy, not frumpy. The main styles are:
- Wire Free Soft 3/4 Cup
- Wire Free Soft Full Cup
- Wire Free Moulded Cup
- Flexi Wire Soft 3/4 cup
- Flexi Wire Moulded Cup
- Sleep bras and garments with built in bras
Traditionally, in Australia, a maternity bra has been a wire free bra. It has long been believed that an underwire could cause damage to the milk ducts and breast tissue which could cause mastitis. Strangely enough, in Europe it is quite normal to wear underwire bras during pregnancy, however they are bras that are specially designed for a pregnant or feeding lady and this is where the confusion occurs. A bra with a wire that is specifically designed for maternity will have a more flexible wire than a normal underwire bra. It is also a wider wire so that it doesn't put pressure on the breast in places that might cause problems. The Cake range of flexi wire maternity bras has proven to be the most popular new bra to hit the market in many years and it is even sold by the Australian Breastfeeding Association's Retail Division so it must be good.
A flexi wire maternity bra is particularly good for a larger busted lady and because you are getting so much support from under the bust, the cup does not have to be so full. Many full cup maternity bras sit very high and make it hard to wear low cut or v-neck tops.
The only time it is not recommended to wear a flexi wire maternity bra is in the first trimester and the early weeks after your milk has just come in and you are sore and engorged. The bust is going through some fairly rapid and dramatic changes at this time so wire free is a better idea.
3/4 cup vs full cup
Usually a 3/4 cup maternity bra is only made to an F cup and this is because the support is not good enough to cope with a bust any bigger than this. (Flexi wire is the exception because the wire gives support)
The advantage of a 3/4 cup maternity bra is that is sits lower than a full cup and allows you to wear low cut tops and v necks without the bra poking out the top.
The disadvantage of a 3/4 cup maternity bra is that because it cuts across the middle of your bust, which is fairly fleshy, you can get the muffin top happening as your bust grows, or simply as your bust goes from full to empty. This isn't a problem with a full cup because it sits so much higher.
A full cup maternity bra will usually go up to an H cup. It get its support from encompassing the whole breast. This is great for the larger busted ladies but smaller busted ladies can find it hard to fill the whole cup.
Moulded vs Soft Cup
Most soft cup maternity bras are heavily laced with lots of seams in the cup. There are some really gorgeous soft cup maternity bras around these days, particularly the Hot Milk Lingerie Range. These bras are designed to make you feel sexy but the downside can be that they are not smooth enough to wear under tight fitting clothes. This is where the moulded cup comes into its own. It is a nice smooth cup that gives a nice line under clothes and hides the fact that you might be wearing a breast pad.
In my opinion, none of the bra companies have perfected the moulded maternity bra yet. Some are close and some are just plain horrible. Any moulded cup maternity bra will only go to an F cup and this alone tells you that the bigger the bust, the less support the bra gives. The moment someone creates a moulded maternity bra that goes up to an H cup and gives good support without sitting to high, sitting to low or digging in is the moment a top selling bra will be born. Cake are getting close. I do like their Toffee range and now that they are being re-cut with flexi wire from DD up I will be interested to see if this fixes the problem of support for the larger busted ladies.
Sleep Bras etc,
Some first time Mums might be wondering why they need a sleep bra. Once your milk comes in you will most likely leak. When you wake in the middle of the night to a crying baby, your let down may already have happened and your will have a very cold, wet bed without breastpads and of course you need something to hold the breast pads in place. Many ladies wear their day bras to bed but this isn't a very comfy option. Cake have a great new sleep bra called Cotton Candy and a vest version is soon due for release. It is soft and comfy and while it doesn't give fantastic shape or support, it is great for sleeping in or wearing around the house.
There are also many breastfeeding nighties, camis and pj tops that have built in bras. Hot Milk, Cake, Top Secret and Goosebumps are some of the great companies that produce such garments.
Summary
While maternity bras have come such a long way, the journey continues. The reality is that you may need several different bras to handle different situations.
There is still an extreme shortage of choice for large ladies or ladies needing a cup bigger than an H but there are still some speciality stores around that cater to this market. Likewise, there is very little around for the very small ladies with most cups starting at 10B.
As a general rule, the cheaper the bra, the quicker it will wear out. So many ladies have bought cheap chain store bras and found that after a very short time they looked like a rag and gave no support.
Visit our website www.maternityrevolution.com.au for more info or feel free to email me lisa@maternityrevolution.com.au or phone me on 07 32051818 for any advice. Our showroom is at 1/124 South Pine Rd, Brendale, QLD, 4500